Hi Sotto. Just to back up what Pink and Jim have said. Having info on H or his life will not do you any good . You will mind read all sort of scenarios in to possibly innocent events. H seems to have kept hurtfulness to a minimum so that has to show a level of caring
I often wonder why someone like you would hang onto hopes of an R with someone like your H. You are kind , caring , positive and loads more while he seems the opposite but then I remember you love him You had a life together and there is a connection As I've said it obvious to me that H has serious issues and I truly believe he will be regretting his choices for a very long time
I saw you posting on Crimsons post earlier in the week and it was nice to see a success story. I took from it that we all must continue with our life's Sotto has been doo g that since BD and I admire you so much for that I know you've been sad and down and with each development a new wave of sadness starts but at those times look inward at who you are and who you have become. There is rarely a post where on some GAL activity you haven't met a new friend who wants to spend time with you Its a measure of your personality that people are drawn to you. I post on a few threads with words of encouragement or not so sage advice. It on yours and a few select others I have an emotional involvement
Should we ever meet I have no doubt we would be friends in the real world and I would be the lucky one. It's hard for you to see but like Pink you are such a strong lady with so much to look forward to that Im a little envious
Sotto will look back on this period of her life with a little sadness but she won't have too much time to do so because she will be too busy loving her life
