Hi Jim, thanks for your kind post on my thread. It's always good to hear from you, and I hope you are doing well my friend.

Eagle-eyed me noticed that OM has now moved in with your W. I don't think you posted that update. Sorry to hear that, but I'm also partly pleased. Nothing like moving in together to strip away the rosy tint from those glasses IMHO.....

Did your W let you know this was happening, or did you just pick this up with the kids? Do they seem okay about it? How are things going in terms of GAL? I know you felt you might want to up the ante a little on that front, and I hope you've managed to add a couple of new things into the mix. Sometimes just adding in the odd yoga class or similar can just tip things from a little lonely-feeling into nice...

I know you dipped your toe into the dating pond and I also wondered if you decided to continue with that? I notice there has been quite a bit of movement towards D in the sitches of my contemporaries - Pink, Sunny, me....do you plan to continue as you are until the two year mark & then decide?? Interesting to read Crimson's sitch recently, and it does show how long sitches can take to turn, and that (whilst hard) it is good to retain a little hope whilst moving forward in our own lives.

Anyway - I'm sending a big hug and best wishes to you xx


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus