And it is hard to really take to heart the advice that the A will run its course I'm sure.
Hang in there. I'd have a lot more difficulty if there were OM. I know I would. It is relief in a way that we both are relieved that we don't have to wonder. It is also hopeful that she knows it will hurt if I start dating. It is hard not knowing, but all the same it is not as hard as knowing there definitely is someone. I've been preparing myself and sitting with the idea of this, and I have to tell you, I know that I'm only intellectually prepared. It will still be a real kick in the gut if and when it happens. I hope I can be a strong as you and several others are.
Me: 50 W:43 S6, S3 M: 12 yrs. T: 17 M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14 S 5 Feb '15 D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry") DB Coach May '15 Wants proceed on D Aug '15 Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15