No, I get what you are saying on the meeting someone like that.
I have had attractions, and women show an interest in me that felt really, really good. I recognized that no matter how much I think I'm in a good place, I'm still very vulnerable to that kind of attention & might mistake it for something else. If you read my last couple posts on my thread. W & I have an agreement that I'm 99% sure I can trust, that we will try to not go ahead and complicate things while we are trying to resolve the already complicated mess of a D. If someone comes along in the meantime. My plan is to let them know this up front. If they aren't understanding and able to wait, knowing that they are under no obligation, then that isn't exactly someone I want to be getting all hot and serious for anyway.
Me: 50 W:43 S6, S3 M: 12 yrs. T: 17 M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14 S 5 Feb '15 D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry") DB Coach May '15 Wants proceed on D Aug '15 Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15
