it does - i wasn't suggesting that you were not moving on with your life per se, and I am not "ready" for a R or dating either but i am also not NOT ready if that makes any sense.

the moment that I meet someone who is irresistable, she will be just that. it has never been something I have planned or been able to in the past. i was single for three years when I met my W. I was always active in my own life, I was not ready OR not NOT ready. I just met her one day and that was that.

Vanilla would love all these double -ves.


M: 6 T: 12
Kids: 2,4
BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015
EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015