Few Questions From. Newbie

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My W likes to repeat: "In a NORMAL relationship, the husband is the one to leave. A REAL MAN would have enough self-respect to not be a hanger on. If you really loved me like you say, you would give me my freedom"

I used to talk about that being unfair, etc. I just finally said, "In a NORMAL relationship, people have the maturity to honor their committment to their marriage and to work through their differences. This is YOUR choice. If you want to leave, there's the door"