thanks for the book recommendations - i am almost up to needing a new book..
Zeus and I had an exchange about this - responding to ex W's request for R, how much of our response of NO - would be for our benefit, and how much for theirs.
i stand by my (possibly gutless) response - "i need time to consider a response". the best part is that stressing over what i might say has been laid to rest.
it's a win/win. non-evasive, noncommittal, not yes or no. i should be a politician
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015