Hi Haunted- I am so sorry. It is so hard to see all that on FB.

Have you considered blocking him from FB? Seeing all that may keep you focusing on him vs. keeping the focus on you.

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced