I stopped the chase and affection and all that so, my wife found someone(s?) else to do it.
I just want to make sure Im understanding. Your wife had a PA at the end of December. And now she has started a new EA in the last couple months.
What kind of work did you two do together after the first affair ended? Did she really recommit to being married to you? Or was it more of a convenience thing until she could find a new "exit strategy"?