LBS becomes the WS. The price of peace.

[Pyrite]

As - part 1 at least

It is not necessarily strictly speaking for the other person, but to help us not be blocked or triggered by any person that comes into our lives

Is this the wrinkle? Honestly, I have only ever though of it as being of benefit to me. Directly anyway that is. The 2nd point, this is why I suggested focusing on your children first as there are no obstacles or triggers that block us. Actually for most people this "pure love" probably already exists or t least a strong heartfelt, genuine desire to feel it.

so that we can respond to them as we choose to rather than how our reactive habits goad us into responding.

Amen!! This sums up the whole point. Thank you.