MY TRAGIC WAW STORY PART VI

[Zues126]

I don't think so. The very fact that you were willing to break no contact shows that you're not hung up on her emotionally that you have to hide from her because you can't stand the pain of opening that wound. You reached out to her for your own reasons, accomplished checking in with her and made sure she was ok for your own peace of mind, and bowed back out again. I have former co-workers check in on me from time to time and I don't assume they're pining for me.

The real measure is your own detachment for you. Why does it matter anymore what she thinks? The stories she tells herself about you don't impact you anymore. You have to live with your own reality. Sounds like you have moved on for the most part, but of course some things take years or never fade completely. Best you can do is keep moving forward. Which you are doing. Good to hear from you ItHurts. Please stay in touch and let us know where you're at every few months.