Sorry you're having a bit of a downer but glowing and peaceful is a good compliment to receive.
Something like this is always going to be hard to see in black and white so its good your H is trying to make it as easy as possible. He could have been difficult or mean in what he said which would have been entirely unjustified. Not sure if thats better or worse for the emotional side though
I hadn't thought about the transaction thing. Cant say im looking forward to seeing all the train tickets and hotel rooms on my XWs when it comes through.
Anyway take care of yourself Sotto
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress