My lizard and her tunnel ...

[late30s]

Yeah, I remind myself of that often. That it isn't a sprint. Seems like I am reminding myself of that more often now than I did a few months ago.

Thinking I need to let go completely. Assume we are done. Move on with my life. Trying to look back at her and what we had is just too painful. Look in the mirror and look to what I can achieve without her. If she decides to join me at some point, we can discuss it then. Quickly reaching the point where she'll need to prove to me that he is gone before we can do anything. Which means she can't just move out of there and move back in with me, there will need to be some cooling off period.

Of course, last I heard they were talking marriage. Good luck to them with that train wreck. I don't want to be anywhere near it.