I agree Azzork, thank you. I think I am still in the panic stage and would do anything not to lose her and my family. We have a good family friend that W looks up to that has done personal and relationship coaching. She really wants to talk with my W when she gets back, she is convinced this can be fixed or at least not handed over to lawyers. My W found out we spoke and was not happy but the friend told her that it was she that made the contact and wanted to speak about what was going on.


M: 48
W: 45
Married: 16 years
D1-14, D2-11, D3-9
BD: May 29
She moved out 2 weeks later with kids
Awaiting mediation