I am so sorry you are having to go through this haunted, its a long and painful process, but you will get through it to the other side and the intensity of it all will dull.
Originally Posted By: haunted
He's talking about how much he loves this girl and wants to marry her when he gets a divorce from me. Do MLC people really go to that extreme and talk like that?
Absolutely - my h told me ow was best thing that happened to him and she made him feel like he had never felt before ! Now he is mortified he said that and he doesn't recall the conversation at all and she turned out to be a real crazy chick.
The moral of this is really don't believe anything h says to you, he is living in a false world that is real to him, he truly believes what he is saying right now as that is what he feels, but when reality hits ...and it will one day ...then he will see that this was not real at all, its quite disillusioning for them, they changed their whole life to chase a dream.
These first few weeks/months are the hardest, you will question everything. It feels like one step forwards and two back at times, like life is totally against you and no one understands the pain and anguish you are feeling - we do here. Read everything you can about MLC to understand that this is not a personal attack on you. Read other posters threads from beginning to end so you can see the journey and know that it does and will get better.
Hang on in there haunted, you are doing incredibly well. Keep posting your thoughts and questions.
