H has started an affair

[Sotto]

Hi Anna, interesting that your H tried to kiss you. And I'm glad you had the reaction you did. Shows some healthy self-respect. You're lucky to have Starsky posting advice. He is one of the vets around here and his words are wisdom indeed.

After BD, my H told me he still had feelings for me. Still wanted to hold my hand and be romantic with me. I told him I had no intention of having any sort of R with him while he was involved with someone else. His OW was at the centre of a horrible web of infidelity. I told him that I didn't want to be part of that web; that wasn't how I wanted my life to be. He seemed to respect that and backed off - however, he has just filed for D and that may not be the outcome you want!!

I think you're doing well for such early days. And it does sound as though your H may be getting a touch antsy. Settle yourself in for the long haul as there aren't normally any quick fixes here. Are you managing to make any GAL plans for yourself yet, and do you have a lovely wedding guest outfit? (I hope so!)

Take care xx