H has started an affair

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At this point how much physical contact do you want without a STD test on H?

Maybe work on your boundaries and find the right time to lay them out for H. And remember boundaries are nothing without action after they are crossed. Know what action you will take and do it. No telling H what you will do, just do it. Action is much more powerful than words.

Someone on here set the house alarm so it would go off when his W came home late. Kind of ended treated the house like a hotel.