I'm mid 40s, wife 2 yrs younger. 3 Kids, youngest 6 oldest 15.

I'm not sure how anything works in her head really.
I do know that for the first 3 months, things were much better between us.
I didn't backslide btw-I really evaluated that.
Then, it comes time for sports for one of the kids to start up. EVERYTHING changed-her mood, attitude, you name it.

I figured that since I wasn't previously engaged in this activity, she probably set it up as an activity in which she was a single woman and that her worlds were colliding (she admitted that btw).
But something still seemed odd as that should've worn off-that's when I caught her lying about her whereabouts one day and I called her and the very old guy out.
I do not have to tolerate being lied to and won't and do not need to make people's decisions for them.
I think what was most surprising to her is that 1) i didn't hurt the guy 2) I didn't rant and rave at her.
I just said the relationship became inappropriate the moment she lied about it to me.
Any insights you got, I'd love to listen.
I appreciate all of your support.

Last edited by Cadet; 08/18/15 07:58 PM. Reason: Carriage returns for readability