Today H came over and back to holding his head and big sighs etc. However now it doesn't affect me let him be depressed or whatever he is I don't care.
I have started telling him things that need fixed around the house and if he fixes them great and if not so be it. I will figure out a way to get it done. After all he is still married and it is his responsibility too. That is my new way of thinking. He walked out fine, but you still have this obligation until you end the M.
I am all over the GAL S and I are going on vacation, we went to the fair, we went to the beach. We take walks etc.
I still have pangs of geez why couldn't this have worked out or why did he do this but I know I have done all I can do and there is nothing left except for H to meet me halfway and he has made it clear that it isn't going to happen
