Summer of Growth and Acceptance - Part 2

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Thanks, Zeus. Trying to keep my emotions in check, but I am not going to lie, they have been all over the place since the conversation.

Just a thought. H is still super emotional and reactive with his words and actions. It worries me that he is making a decision to D in this state. There is nothing rational about his thought process. I still see so much hurt and anger in him from how he felt in our M, so I do feel remorse, sadness, regret even given the hurtful things he says and does. Even though he says he is to blame for part of our M, I don't think he really believes it. The point is I don't think he has really processed what it means to divorce. Would there be any benefit to telling him I will not agree to D until he gets IC to deal with emotions and process this in a healthy way? My guess is no, but just tossing it out there. I know he is not my responsibility and I need to let him figure it out on his own. I just worry with his current state he is not emotionally ready to deal with D process.

Also, is it odd that he wants to try and start discussion of seperating things before filing? Seems odd to me. He seemed in nor hurry to actually file.

For a nice treat, I just went in had my teeth whitened at the dentist.