I think you misunderstood what I was trying to say at the end of your last thread. Im not saying that things that hurt you dont hurt or shouldnt hurt you. What Im trying to say is that your goal should be to get a point where the little things she does or says dont hurt.
she sends you a picture of her eating something? You just shrug and think "thats weird." She says "you can leave your stuff here for now" you think "Meh, Im going to move it out anyway."
This isnt an overnight process. It takes time and effort and probably a lot of pain. But, thats your goal - is to let her do her own thing and for it to not bother you.
All I was trying to say in my post before is that while distance helps, dont expect that you will achieve ^^^ just by being away - I know that it helped me, but it wasnt everything.
