I am not saying what I gather you think I am. In my OP I am commenting on the "guilt" I feel when contemplating pursuing another woman, now, 7 months after BD.
Just reading along, as always (I don't post much anymore) but felt compelled to comment: What makes you think this "attractive available" coworker would be interested in a married man, especially one who got the bomb and whose wife walked out just 7 months ago? And if she is, what does that tell you about her?
In Australia, you can file for divorce after you have lived apart for 12 months and proper arrangements have been made for your children. I truly think that would be the best "guilt assuager."
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17
