All standard stuff you're going through here. Why apologise for going to work and earning a crust? Typical WAS selfish behaviour. Best thing to do here is to just say nothing back. WAS's will try and trap you in to a fight to show that you're still 'wanting' them. Remember what sandi said - they need to feel loss.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015