I gave this some thought overnight. Honestly I went through a ton with my H and perhaps there is some MLC still going on, perhaps not. Right now I am working on me. In a vastly different way than I did my last time through. Part of my reason for coming back to DB is because I am thinking about the ways to make the changes permanent. I need to have a support group. I want to be better for the rest of my life. It is not about changing him, its about changing me.
If I belong in a different forum, or off the board entirely, I am open to suggestions.
