I guess I didn't look at it like that I was looking more along the lines of feeling the emotions as they were there instead of just pushing them away I can say not pursuing these two days has given me piece of mind that I do NOT need to text him daily I can even wait until he is home to discuss kids money ect! I guess I didn't feel like I was pretending not to be angry I actually wasn't angry just sad! That was scary to me because usually I become angry and defensive. I felt it was good for me to feel the emotions and look at why I was feeling them and understand them! I guess I thought it was more about me looking at my feelings not basing them on his reaction maybe I was wrong?! Can you help me dig a little deeper Into the way I looked at it Zeus?!
I can say not pursuing these two days has given me piece of mind that I do NOT need to text him daily I can even wait until he is home to discuss kids money ect! I guess I didn't feel like I was pretending not to be angry I actually wasn't angry just sad! That was scary to me because usually I become angry and defensive. I felt it was good for me to feel the emotions and look at why I was feeling them and understand them! I guess I thought it was more about me looking at my feelings not basing them on his reaction maybe I was wrong?! Can you help me dig a little deeper Into the way I looked at it Zeus?!