I hope that you get to the point where she is ready to work on your M and you can tell her all this. I'd hold off for now, as she is just making some moves back into contact with you, but I suspect that moment will come. There are so many of those kinds of talks I want to have w/ my W when/if the time comes.

You can also write it down in a letter (hand written on nice stationary) and store it away for a later time if you think you would struggle to get what you want across in person.

We learn a lot about ourselves, both our mistakes and weaknesses, and the way we really want to be, out of all this.


Me: 50 W:43
S6, S3
M: 12 yrs. T: 17
M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14
S 5 Feb '15
D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry")
DB Coach May '15
Wants proceed on D Aug '15
Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15