Walkaway wife

[jjal]

Never argued in our 20 years. When she left, she said she wanted to do 2 week bike rides across Italy, 10 day hiking/camping trips on the AT trail, etc... I don't have 1 day camping trips as a frame of reference. I never said no, but my indifference or lack of interest was telling. Come to me with facts -- daily mileage, equipment costs, logistics, etc... Not just dreamy stuff.

Besides, most of it is stuff she has never done before, but fascinated with. She's a dive headfirst in, ask questions later kind of person. I like to analyze stuff 1st, which comes off as hesitation.

Her splitting here is diving headfirst, not thinking. Typical of her personality. I guess I should have amused all those wild ideas just to keep her around. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯