Good. If she does want it, letting her wonder what has happened because she didn't have to worry about it because she counted on you taking the initiative, is a good thing. Given her anger, right now she may not want that hug. Either way, it is the right thing to not initiate.

You might find Sandi2's WW threads helpful, as the anger and resentment and the attitude of many WAWs can mirror the WW in ways, although there are differences too. She is especially frank about the attitude of a woman who does not want to work on the R and for the time has stopped thinking of you in good ways. And remember Sandi was a WW & came back, so just because many of our WAWs go through this, doesn't mean the end.

Hang tight & good job.

Me: 50 W:43
S6, S3
M: 12 yrs. T: 17
M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14
S 5 Feb '15
D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry")
DB Coach May '15
Wants proceed on D Aug '15
Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15