She is becoming more unattractive to me. I do love her but I didn't fall for her looks. It was her character that was attractive. That is long gone. At this point im staying in this for the kids. They need me. She needs me but doesn't see it.
Don't fool yourself. Sure, you might feel that way now. Believe me, it doesn't last. Also, NO, she does NOT NEED you. And you don't need her. You are both perfectly capable adults that can carry on the rest of your lives w/o each other and be fine. A marriage should be two people who enhance each others lives and make them better. But each should be capable of being just fine with or w/o a partner.
Me 47 W 42 T 24 yrs M 18 yrs W living with OM BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1) BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out) WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015. Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.
