About the letter ... meh ... at this point it would be a full on pursuit quest on your part with little to gain really, there is no magic bullet, no phrase that will get you out of this mess you are currently in. I do agree a heartfelt apology is good under controld circumstances. I at one point did this with my W, told her sincerely how sorry I was for taking her and our M for granted, and how I would do things differently, then I ended the conversation as I took my S for the night .... this was only because W brought up R talk and it was a perfect time to Matrix my way out of what she wanted to address (she was looking for closure) and more about planting a seed that not only did I listen to her complaints, I was truly sorry for them. At no point ... an I mean NEVER do you write a letter that "Pleads her to come back" ..... in fact .. I would HIGHLY recommend any letter, email, TM that is R related you post here first ... Wonka is famous for being able to edit this for optimum effect .... you are here for help right?
As far as the "Is it over? Should I just move on?" you are what ... 6 weeks in. You are still a DB baby, still learning to crawl. Its over when you decide it is.
Again .. NO R TALKS with your W ... she will continue to run.
AS far as her saying "I'm done and not emotionally attached to you." Thats how she feels right now, does not mean thats how she will feel later.
My W just 6 months ago was setting up our appt to D, move on with her new life and ready to 'put this all behind her' ..... this morning as I left for work she pulled my arm, gave me a huge hug, a kiss and a "ILY, have a nice day at work baby". I am telling you things CAN change .... I am STILL DBing her .... just on a different level right now.
