I have not contacted or talked to my H in almost one month. Out of the blue last weekend he called and left a message on my phone telling me he just wanted to say hi because he had not called me in a while (actually about 7 months). I was on a girls weekend and did not call him back. No call this weekend.
Today, he tries to call me on his one hour lunch break. I was on a conference call at work so I sent him the auto " busy, can I call you later" he sent a text back "yes". Then he called and left a message on my VM saying he tried to text me but I was busy. -yes- then he said when I have time to call him because we need to have a talk, a serious talk.
I waited a couple of hours and sent him back the following text. I hope this is OK. I probably should have run this past a vet b4 I sent it:
Got your message. I'm out of town on business through Thursday. Will be happy to talk when I'm back. Hope you are doing well.
I'm getting very nervous now that he has broken his silence. Not sure what to expect. Any tips on the best way to proceed? Assuming I do not contact him, right? Listen and validate? Do I let him do the talking? Do I keep conversation uncomplicated? A serious talk to me means relationship talk. So not good with those kinds of talks. Listen and validate, right!!!!
