Thanks Job,
I ask the phase cause I ignored my H alot on our past, and I dont want to miss something important. Will I really know when he is done? Or does it gradually happen and one day its over? I guess H has lots of time left in the oven.
I could see my H just wanted to continue on as if nothing has happened.
I do now realize I will feel when Im done standing, no time line set in stone, as I get more in tuned with me, I know I will know when H time is Up.


Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW