Yes, and it will make your life more miserable (as it will make things worse between you & likely trigger retaliation) in the short run as well. So, you'll be punishing yourself.

Do you have an IC to talk through your feelings with (can't remember)? It is a much more constructive way of handling them if you don't.

Probably good that you recognized that you needed space right now & asked for it. That is double secret DBing.

Me: 50 W:43
S6, S3
M: 12 yrs. T: 17
M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14
S 5 Feb '15
D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry")
DB Coach May '15
Wants proceed on D Aug '15
Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15