Hi Anna, I think it sounds as though you did well. Cool, not pursuing and not being unpleasant either. Not sure why he may be mad - but don't worry about that and follow the advice of your DB coach. They have seen a lot and are the real pros.

I like the idea of bringing 'sassy you' home again and smiling more. Refinding that part of you at home that you have somehow lost in the M. Don't feel bad about that. I think it happens to many of us, and in time you will come to see that this horrible thing that has happened, brings opportunities too - and in a way is a gift. Not a gift that was on your wish list of course. But a gift nonetheless. Because who you manage to be and become through all of this is the important thing here.

Take care Anna x

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T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus