This may be a stupid question, but what can you do to prevent another EA? Is it a matter of time? By working on better communication/support? By no means do I mean to imply all is well, I know there is a long road ahead. Just want some perspective on things.
By being fully transparent, getting good ongoing MCing with an MC who specializes in dealing with infidelity, by establishing strong and healthy boundaries in your marriage, and by constant honest communication with each other.
It's hard, hard work -- and it'll take a good couple of years to fully get back to where you guys were (and beyond). But it can be even better than ever if you're both committed to it, and do the work necessary!
