legally separating

[beckyb]

When I found out he countered-filed for divorce and I abandon my petition for separation I have truly "dropped the rope". Internally it is still a huge struggle but I have gone dark and am not pushing at all. I' not asking my attorney to slow things down or speed them up. I just have to move on with my life. (easier said than done)

Today, after no contact for several days he texted me to ask for information he could have gotten on his own, and to ask about the cat. I responded very briefly. Just stinks that he cares more about the cat than our marriage.