have I been making mistakes too long part3

[tkdmme]

how much does it cost to see an attorney. She has access to our account and will see if I spend money on an attorney. However I do want to find out what im in for.

As you know we have 3 kids, all in private school which is extremely expensive right at 24,000 a year and that's not counting any extra stuff they may want to be involved with at the school. I would be happy to pay for this but I cant afford mush more than that.

She wants to keep the house. I have heard horror stories about guys who just get raked over the coals when it comes to this. she cant afford the house unless she is planning to hit me up for that too. can they take everything?