I guess what is bothering me most, is that 180's/LRT seems to be creating more distance. I don't initiate any contact, it comes from her via email 3-5 times a week.

I also think that in the detaching process, not looking at their social media pages is helpful. I've weened myself off of that, but, when all of my family is friends with her on Facebook (2 siblings, 2 in-laws, 6 nieces/nephews, and my Mother), it's tough not to see what she's liking/posting. My family isn't aware of anything yet, I've not told them because it wouldn't do any good, only make matters worse. But she's been liking all their back to school photos and so forth.

She came Saturday to pick up a few kitchen items for her furnished corporate apartment. She also picked up her mail, in the mail was a USPS change of address verification. So, I guess she is changing her address during this "trial separation".

5 mile walk after work with a buddy for my GAL process.


Me - Mid 40's
W - Mid 40's
Married 20
No kids
BD - 7/2015
ILYB...
Moved out 2 days later
Suspect EA