have I been making mistakes too long part3

[tkdmme]

My friends tell me to get a lawyer and beat her to the punch. They are also trying to set me up with other women. I defiantly want nothing to do with another woman but I'm not sure about the lawyer stuff. Does it matter who files first? Is it worse for the one who waits?

I don't have alot of money but I make a good living. I make more than twice what she makes. I'm not greedy but I don't want to be living in a box.