H has started an affair

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Good job! As backward as it sounds and feels, detaching draws people back. Just remember, clingy pushes away, detach brings back.

Also, I've read here that most A die out by 6 months. That's when all the warts and negatives in the OW/OM begin to appear that were previously ignored. A new A is fresh and all the negatives are brushed aside by the excitement. With the contact today the FOG of the A may be lifting, who knows. Just keep detaching and GALing, they are for you and for your longterm happiness.