Heavy, depending on the expense, either she is paying or we are paying things together still from our joint account, I'm not paying her anything directly. It's all just like before. Even if I were paying rent, I'm not really interested in an agreement that keeps her out, to be honest. While it's annoying and awkward to be in the same space, especially when I'm not expecting it, a tenant agreement would feel unnecessarily cold and adversarial at this point to me.
I do plan to move out - first week of October. Have to wait that long because it's one of our rentals, and that's when the current tenants will be out. I don't want to be there long, though... been looking hard for a building lot to put down my tiny house. Not easy to find, though!
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19