I had made plans to go to my cousin's going away party. S15 and I ran some errands, H calls to tell me he is not working today and ask when we would be home.
We get home I tell H of my plans, invited him to go, he declined and responded that he has made all this food now what (H had cooked while s15 and I was running errands). I told him again I had plans and he was invited and I had no clue he would be home today and cooking.
I went off to Cousin's party, H and S15 stayed home, about 2 hours later S15 & H show up at party. Everyone was happy to see H and joked with him that they are glad to see he is still alive and not buried in the basement..(by me),,,
H is there for maybe 1hour, heads home, I leave a couple hours later and s15 stays even longer.
When I get home, H is waiting for us to eat dinner with him, even though we all ate at cousins.
I ended up having a very small amount, and H and I watched a movie.
Not sure why H did not work, he said he went and they had too many people on staff and he was able to come home since he has so much OT, AND had not been feeling well.
H never misses work unless he is VERY sick, not even before BD. So I hope his explanation was the truth. And he does not pass up OT pay options...
I'm seeing him being more interested in spending time with me and S15, not like at BD when he had mandatory family movie night and seem to be going thru the motions, he seems to enjoy time with us a lil more.
BUT, I'm staying on guard, staying alert. I cannot let my guard down at this time, I know H still has much work to do, and I know I'm still working on myself trying to be better each day.
Any ideas what is going on with H, what phase he could be in? Just wondering...I know it does not really matter, but curious.
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
