Diff,

Glad to read that you had an awesome time with your family. Well done!

As for your W, she's on her own journey whether you like it or not. Maybe try something different when W says you're not right for her, simply say, "Yeah, you got that right...I am not right for you. You want to be with someone who calls our kids "tenants." Sure, go right ahead with that "right" woman. I know my worth and I know for a fact that I am miles and miles better than her. You can have her."