Your husband went through a number of life events that are almost guaranteed to send even the best of us off into a bad place & a desire to seek out new things in hopes to escape his pain. That's going to take a while. My DB coach reminds me regularly that in her experience, the number one predictor of success in DBing is patience.
Asitis, you are right about my husband and it taking time. But a Divorce is already underway although in early stages, he has moved out and I think OW has moved in. It's discouraging.
I'm trying to make myself take one hour and one day at a time.
Becky - Just because divorce proceedings have started doesnt mean they cant be stopped. Just because you GET divorced doesnt mean you cant get remarried. Focus on what you need to do for you, and you will be so much better off.
