MLC NO CHANGE SEPARATED BUT NOW WANTS D PART 4

[asitis]

Sorry. Don't try too hard to figure him out. Could be that he is starting to have some change of heart and it scares him. Could be that he is feeling like he isn't in control of things either regarding you or in some other part of his life, and his need is driving him. Could be that he needs to feel like you give him what he wants so that he feels free, and only then can he feel like he is free to make a choice. Could be that this is what he wants and that this will not change.

Lots of reason for no filing, I'm not going to list them all, as I think you're getting the idea that trying to figure this all out is one of those cheeseless tunnels.

Just take care of yourself, reach out to friends for company and sympathy. And welcome to the unhappy club of getting the D bomb and then waiting and wondering whether or when they will actually move to file. Sorry you have joined us.