Yes Heavy, you did great! Sounds like it went much better than most of your encounters with each other, and if the best you can hope for is to be friendly co-parents, it sure beats the alternative - an alternative I know all too well with my ex-husband, unfortunately.

No expectations, but no need to dispense with hope, either - not if you don't want to. At least not from all the things I'm reading. It's such a long, long road...


Me: 46 Her: 41
M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18
3/26 W and I meet OW
BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring
W goes to stay with OW 6/26
NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16
I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19