Hi Duke. Welcome to our family. Sorry you are going through this experience. If you will read Divorce Remedy, it will encourage you and also give you the principles behind this board.

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Her reasoning is we don't own our own house and when she looked at our investments it was no where near where she thought it should be although still significant.


I've been around for a while, and have heard of various reasons, but I think this may be a new one. Although security is important to women, most of us can feel secure and not necessarily be a home owner. Some of us are not fortunate enough to have any investments. As a woman, I find it a little suspicious. Usually, when our emotional needs are being met by the man we love, we can deal with the other things. However, there's always room for the strange bird, I guess. Has she pushed and/or complained about this over the years?

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!