Yes she is. She has said many times that she is waiting to see if she feels any different in time. But she does nothing that would help her feel different. Just my opinion but I don't think she wants to feel different about me.
Right, now she does NOT want to feel different. She's made her decision and dug in. It's going to take a lot of time and actions, not words, on your part to ever get her to change her mind. You are still very early in this process. Remember, it took years to get here and you are only a few months out. You may have to go like this another year or two before anything really clicks in her, and even then it's not guaranteed. That's why you need to focus on you and the kids, and make the changes because they are good. Getting your W back would be a bonus.
Me 47 W 42 T 24 yrs M 18 yrs W living with OM BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1) BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out) WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015. Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.