She's frightened. Something has gone twang in her brain so she will lash out at the person who loves her most. So, what do you do if you don't want someone to bother you? You will tell them to go away etc. This is the same. Trust me, by pursuing, you will push her away further (experience).
You, however, have to act as if this is gonna happen - because it might.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015