PP, you are more than welcome and I'm glad you are able to get some comfort from my comments.
I too have a hard time with our sitch. We have been living together for a total of 24 years. I ask myself that frequently. How does one leave after that much time and not even try to fix it. But then to be fair, did he try for years and I didn't see it? It's a shame that it takes a BD to wake us up.
Thank you so much for the hug! It was a great think to wake up to this morning. Have a great day, and I'll check back later.
*hugs* E
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out